Friday, June 17, 2011

The Little Things...

Stroller?? What’s that?! I have been here for nearly a month and have not seen ONE! I tell you no lie.  I have now been converted to love the swaddle …




I keep saying before I leave here someone will have to teach me how to do it.  I asked the silly question of whether anyone buys strollers? “Ahhh silly girl… Why would you buy something that you can do yourself” …(yep, embarrassed to be North American} But still I ask “what about those women who have back problems?... She looks at me as though I’m foreign and says…  “Your point is …. ? 
LOL… the power of strong African women!


                                                                    Bye munchkin :)



Very common to see both inside and outside the City

                                                      You have a head.... Use it... !!



                                                                    Lady in City




                                                               Lady in the townships





Maytag? Whirlpool?! Not around these parts! This is how it’s done over here! These pics I took on the streets of Guguletu (a township). One of the many I work in outside the city. 








Ladies gossiping and doing hair... the little things :)

Monday, June 13, 2011

Venturing Into The Unknown…

People have been asking if I’ve been trying new dishes.  So, here’s the 411 on me trying new things.   I have been to a lot of good restaurants in Cape Town.  The food here is amazing.  8/10 you will love the food, décor and the service.  I figured a little while back that I should try something new. South Africa has a lot of delicacies care of gaming (hunting).  Very often you will see a general selection of:
Grilled warthog ribs, Crocodile ribs, Ostrich fillet or burger, Pork neck/Pork feet/chicken feet, Cow intestines…

Although I know some of my West Indian relatives are checking off some of the above mentioned (chicken feet...lol) I still did not feel any comfort in my options. I decided to take my chances with (Pumba) Warthog ribs



….  Let’s just say … Been there done that and WILL definitely NOT be trying that again




The unknown is highly overrated …but I’m still glad that I went outside of my comfort zone and tried something new…


I finished the fries though :)

Sunday, June 12, 2011

OKAY so here is my pet peeve about South Africa ...

Everywhere we go there is a window right above the toilet. Now ladies for those of us who regularly squat, I’m sure you can see the problem with this!  What makes this situation even more frustrating is that the bathroom is usually situated off of a patio or someone else’s backyard or is nearby a street alley.  Sometimes you think you get lucky because the window is fogged … but then it doesn’t close… ahhhhhh so frustrating!!!  Do you see this pic.. there are people outside just to the left drinking coffee! 




It’s getting so ridiculous I had to take a pic! …tried my best to back up far enough to show you the toilet below…




Ladies, are there any suggestions?! At this point I either continue my awkward squat while peering furiously over my neck dance, or just become comfortable in my skin and bare all!
MADNESS!!!





Friday, June 10, 2011

Slave Lodge Museum



We visited the Slave Lodge Museum, which was quite an experience. This building has been standing for decades and has seen the changes of time.  This building originally housed the slaves that were brought to South Africa from the VOC (East Indian Dutch Company). At one point in history the VOC were the leaders in slave trade.  When slavery was abolished this building became a court house and later a parliament building.  SA has turned the building into a museum to mark the history of this building, which is near the heart of Cape Town.  A blatant memory that at the heart of the city at one point in time slavery ruled the people of this land.

Going through this building we were told how slaves would be brought into the gates stripped of whatever straps of cloth they had on and were left naked in the inter court yard. Here they would be given food to eat out of a trough and allowed to wash for the first time in months. Many of the men and women who survived this far, were sick or lost their minds from seeing loved ones die or sold away.    Here they were left in chains and soon sold. 
Going through this museum was a very emotional and grounding experience. What was very humbling for me was the response from some of my coworkers who said they have not gone and probably would never go. When I asked why, they only briefly stated that it is too much. The emotions and experience for them still too raw. Again, I was brought back to the reality that something that is a part of history for me, is something much more tangible for them.  Coworkers a little over my age can talk to me about not being allowed to go on specific buses, not being allowed to go to certain beaches or enter white only restaurants.  They have their own personal memories of slavery.  It’s in moments like this that I recognize the privilege that I have been born into.

We were told not to take pictures… so I took as many as I could smuggle 





 Pic of front of building door
The slave lodge is the second oldest building in Cape Town! It was built in 1679. This building was formerly known as the “Fortress of Human Misery”  … instead of the pretty shutters picture the metal bars and a metal clamp door






Hand shackles and leg shackles which were often linked with another prisoner on the voyage over and in the slave lodge.  Often a prisoner died and you were left tied to him/her until someone came to retrieve the body, which sometimes would be days later... 





Replica of lower dorm on ship. You have no idea how small this space is… In this space almost ten people would be forced to sleep and go to the bathroom... 





 The names of slaves are written down as inventory often beside sheep and cattle; their last names and first names were changed.  Slaves were given Dutch names, named by regions like Madagascar. Often, slaves were named things like fortune or bless which mocked their circumstances.





Here is The Book of Names, which is in a separate room lighted up.  These pages are called the tree of life and contain some of the 6 thousand slaves that lived or died at the slave lodge.  This was really heart felt for me to know that life was behind those words. For anybody who has read the Book of Negroes by Lawrence Hill you know what I’m saying..


We must all remember the past in order to not repeat the same hate, racism and lies in the future.  We are all one human race with the same red blood running through us.

We must remember to Love everybody as We ourselves want to be loved. The bible says we should love our neighbours as we do ourselves.  Are we doing this in our day to day lives.  Do we show the love and respect to our loved ones, not taking their love and affection for granted.  When that stranger on the road bumped you on your way into work this morning and apologized, did you tell him no problem? We must  learn to live and let go ...

Have you told someone that you love them today?
If you have, but haven't heard it back... I love You but bigger than me God loves you :)

Keep well and Be Blessed Everyone

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Gender Equality..Yes.. Most of the time anyway

I am all for gender equality… *My disclaimer * unless it comes to changing a tire
It’s not that I can’t… I just don’t want to :)
Well, whoever said that chivalry is dead hasn’t meant some of the men in South Africa! While driving through one of the ghettos our tire was punctured and we had an immediate flat! Within seconds of getting out of the car men came out of the woodwork to help. 



These two gentlemen who came from different homes were the first on the scene (others had come out to help as well). Bamb! Before we could even take the tire out the trunk they had pushed us ladies out of the way and got down to business.  They were so quick that literally in the blink of an eye it was done and they were off!
I give thanks and a deep curtsey to all of the gentlemen out there ;)